Feminine Chaos
Feminine Chaos
If You're Seeing This, It's Not You, It's Me
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If You're Seeing This, It's Not You, It's Me

Kat and Phoebe welcome special guest Leigh Stein for a discussion of female heterosexual rejection, gothic age gap relationships, and crying on TikTok in the attention economy.

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Leigh's new book, If You're Seeing This It's Meant for You, releases August 26! Order it here to get the bonus gift of cool limited-edition tarot card stickers:

If You're Seeing This, It's Meant for You by Leigh Stein | Madison Street Books

Or on Amazon if you're basic:

If You're Seeing This, It's Meant for You: A Novel eBook : Stein, Leigh

Leigh's essay on the art of creating a brooding, lust-worthy middle aged man:

Attention Economy
My Max de Winter
I’m organizing an IN PERSON meetup for my Substack subscribers in Brooklyn on Tuesday August 26 at 5pm! How to join us: register for my launch event at Powerhouse and forward your email confirmation to assistant@leighstein.com. Callie will send you the location for the meetup…
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Previously on Feminine Chaos:

Premium: Revenge Is a Dish Best Served Coldplayed

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July 23, 2025
Premium: Revenge Is a Dish Best Served Coldplayed

Kat and Phoebe discuss the latest in "heterofatalism", how to write about heterosexuality without oversharing about your sex life, and the viral jumbotron sex scandal with shades of the 1990s-era L'Affaire Bobbitt.

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